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  • ...of the screaming and shouting from my neighbours.

    It's driving me up the wall. 

    The kid screams all day until about 9pm when s/he goes to bed.  It is constant and ear piercing and is driving me totally mad.  The boyfriend/husband shouts most of the time and storms out the front door, banging it as he goes, when he throws one of his childish temper tantrums. 

    They both shout out of the window at their friends, spit out of the window, bang and drill all the time.  It drives me out of the house to get some peace and quiet.

    Do you have noisy neighbours or have you had noisy neighbours in the past and how did you deal with it?

    blue

  • lmao

    Sorry, I'm not laffing at you...laffing at myself.

    I'm from a big noisy family myself.  And I've always lived next to noisy neighbors.  So I guess I'm kinda used to it.  But I do understand how it could be annoying to other people.

    Have you tried just going there and talking to them about it?  If they are cool neighbors, they'll understand and make an effort to tone it down...and go from there.  If the racket continues, talk to the other surrounding neighbors , and get them involved.  Lastly, if nothing else seems to have an effect on the decibels, notify the local authorities and file a noise complaint.

  • I am one of those noisy neighbors tongue

    Nicky storms out of the front door and slams it quite often...lmao

    My kids cry and scream all day, until they go to bed around 9pm

    I don't spit out the window though...lol

    :-*

  • We don't bang all the time either...lmaooooooooooo

    JK Blue

    That has got to be rough..

    I hope they shut up soon...


    :-*

  • The spitting out of the window actually makes me heave like I'm gonna throw up. 

    It's not the actual spitting - its the hawking that makes me feel sick.

    I hope they shut up soon too - maybe they will move on.

    blue

  • Blue.. don't worry they will be gone soon.. noisy neighbors never last, especially inconsciderate ones.. but let me ask you, besides their noisiness do they seem like any type of decent people if at all that someone were to go over and ask them kindly to keep the noise down? I mean you don't want to start any trouble with that kind of madness, but you want some peace.. maybe they don't really know how loud they are?

  • There is no way on this planet I would approach him/them.  He is a total ahole.  I overheard his mob. convo. a while ago (one of his stage whispers) - he said "Yeah I got "aht" in March" (got out in March - generally referring to getting out of prison).  So that's not an option.

    He is renting off the owner and I have no idea who that is as they never moved in.

    blue

  • My neighbors are pretty much all old and quiet...looks like we are the only family who has little child and if they do, never seen them yet...:)
    But my neighbors like to compete...gardening. When I put new plants and flowers, they all do too ha ha. I put new lights out side my garden, all of sudden the whole street is filled with solar lights.
    But the house next us is always having parties every weekend and that drives me crazy sometimes...taco truck is always parked in front of my house and their guests throw the garbage in my backyard...kids knocking on my door for fun...you name it! So I know what you mean,Blue... wink

  • That's not a pleasant situation blue. Not really much you can do but hope they move and keep your doors locked.

  • Hiya Blue,

    I know this has to be very stressful. It is one thing to be loud and another to be combative if approached. I have a neighbor who likes to crush cans to be recycled for cash.

    Literally from the crack of dawn til at least 10 - 11 pm every weekend this woman is crushing cans in her backyard. You would think it wouldn't be that loud or annoying but it is like a leaky faucet that drips all day. Even with the air conditioner on and windows shut you can hear her.

    I have never said anything to her about it. It is tough because they have always been nice neighbors.

    Do they have a landlord that maybe you could complain to?

    Lips
  • Nan - sounds as though your neighbours are "keeping up with the Jones's" type of neighbours.  Sorry to hear you are suffering too.


    That's not a pleasant situation blue. Not really much you can do but hope they move and keep your doors locked.
    [/quote]

    Right on about keeping the doors locked froggy.  He scares the hell out of me.  He is vile in every sense of the word.

    [quote author=lipstick_xoxos link=topic=12995.msg116828#msg116828 date=1280540399]
    Hiya Blue,

    I know this has to be very stressful. It is one thing to be loud and another to be combative if approached. I have a neighbor who likes to crush cans to be recycled for cash.

    Literally from the crack of dawn til at least 10 - 11 pm every weekend this woman is crushing cans in her backyard. You would think it wouldn't be that loud or annoying but it is like a leaky faucet that drips all day. Even with the air conditioner on and windows shut you can hear her.

    I have never said anything to her about it. It is tough because they have always been nice neighbors.

    Do they have a landlord that maybe you could complain to?

    Lips



    I totally understand about the can crushing Lips.  It must drive you crazy and yet it's prob not a very loud noise.  It's just the constant same noise that gets you.

    As for reporting them to the landlord, the owner I know is a woman but that's it.  She has never lived there and nobody knows her name.

    I just have to hope they move on and soon.

    blue

  • Blue,

    Since I was in Mortgage banking/ RE for 20 some yrs a tool that is free to use on the internet is zillow.com you can type in ANYONES address and find out many things, who owns the property, if it for sale, have they pd their taxes, etc. I do not know if you can access this site for the UK but I am sure they have a version of it there. Good Luck but i do suggest if things get to bad call the police for disturbing the peace but anonymously.
  • I thought I would update this thread and I'm amazed that it was almost a year ago that I posted this.

    They are still there. He still shouts and screams at the kids and the woman but add to the mix loud music with the base turned up, banging, sanding. and drilling and it will give you some idea of how things are now.  Still not good - somehow I'm more tolerant of it though.

    I need a break!

    blue

  • i live in a brick house all to my self.Im so sorry Blue. sad

  • Can't you call the police? There must be some law against that.


  • Can't you call the police? There must be some law against that.



    I was thinking of suggesting that but......yikes... I can only imagine if he found out it was blue or even suspected it.

    I'm really sorry you are dealing with this crap, blue.  I have some great neighbors but a couple who are real doozies.  They don't do anything to me so it's easy to put them on 'ignore'.

    I don't know if there is really anything you can do.  He sounds like a time bomb who could use some anger management.

    Best I can offer is... Hang in there.
  • Thanks Rena.


    Can't you call the police? There must be some law against that.


    I don't think it would help tbh Johnny.  I believe it would only make things 10 times worse.  That said, I will be knocking on the door at some point to ask for a little bit of peace and quiet when its late at night.

    blue
  • OMG,I thought you'd be rid of the ahole by now...like back in jail,prison the nut hut whatever.I can only imagine what that child will grow up to be like..(some people should not be parents) probably a carbon copy thru no fault of their own.I'm sorry you are STILL going thru this blue thumbs_down  :( it can sure throw the whole neighborhood into a funk.
  • Thanks Rosebud.  I have actually spoken to him and he seems a pleasant enough guy "to the outside world".  But as one who knows that men can change when "behind closed doors", it doesn't fool me.  This guy clearly has anger management issues and if he sorted those out, I'm sure he would be a great person to know, but until then....

  • I know what you mean about closed doors,my ex was one of those.Hopefully they'll move out of the neighborhood soon...even that won't be soon enough I'm sure.

  • he only one that will have major problems will be the child for having to go thru this. sad


  • I know what you mean about closed doors,my ex was one of those.Hopefully they'll move out of the neighborhood soon...even that won't be soon enough I'm sure.
    [/quote]

    I hope so too Rosebud. 

    [quote author=rena35 link=topic=12995.msg169518#msg169518 date=1306269716]
    he only one that will have major problems will be the child for having to go thru this. sad


    You're so right rena. 

    One thing has changed - the child has stopped screaming all the time which is good and I have to say, the children are very cute. I just hope they stay that way but I won't hold my breath.

    blue

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